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"The Radical Reformation II - Redefining Community: From Individuality to Mutuality"
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A sermon by the Reverend Kenneth Gordon Hurto
© 2006; All rights reserved.
"Let him who cannot be alone, beware the community . . .
Let him who is not in community, beware of being alone." - Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Dear Gentle Reader: The sermon text which follows was an oral presentation in the midst of a worship service. Missing here are the elements that make for a communal experience: the music, the faces of companions, shared joy or sorrow, the noise of children, and the quiet silence that transforms ordinary time into the sacred.
Added here are unspoken notes and/or commentaries to the text.
A sermon is a living event, between the preacher and the congregation. If you are reading this after hearing, don't be surprised if it is somewhat different from what you recall. If you are reading this afresh, may the sermon you write in conversation with these words improve upon what follows. Blessings, Kenn.
What is a Self?
Have you ever said, "I am besides myself with worry?" Or, "I'm just not myself today." Have you ever said of a struggling youth, "She's having a hard time finding herself"? Or, perhaps, you've said of someone, "He's too full of himself." The other day, in a belated note, I said to a friend, "I'm still trying to catch up with myself."
A moment of reflection and you discover these are very strange sentences. Who or what is this "self" that's been alongside or ahead of me, lost, disappeared or overly filling someone? If I'm not my "self," whose self am I? Yes, a very strange notion, indeed.
What is a Person?
Today's question is: What does it mean to be a person, that is, a "self?" My answer is that being a self is like one of those ambiguous gestalt images. Depending on how you think, one moment you see a young woman, then suddenly an old one, or two faces, then a vase. The image itself does not change, only in how you look at it. Likewise, in one moment, we think of self as being an individual, set apart. At the same time, to be a self means to be relationship with others. It is not either/or. Individuality and mutuality are part of the same thing.
When my Nathan was nearly two, he looked me hard in the eyes after I offered to help him with something. "No, Daddy, I'm going to do it myself." I took delight in that. My boy's assertion meant he had enough self to be a person in his own right. For the first time, at this age, he became a self a-part, with a will of his own.
Yet, as the same time he remained deeply connected. When he wasn't refusing to pick up his toys, he wanted the innocence of having all his needs met in the arms of loving parents. Being part of a family was also who he was, a self as a part. All kids go through this. It is a cycle that repeats throughout life.
About 20 years ago, Harvard scholar Robert Kegan put forward a theory of human development that said we have these two great yearnings: to be included and to be independent. Kegan said that we evolve into a self as we spiral around the dynamic of being simultaneously both an individual and what he calls an embeddual.
Now, if I use the word "embedded," you're likely to think of reporters in Iraq. What Kegan means is that we begin our lives, quite literally, implanted in another person. At birth, we separate and become an individual. Unable to survive alone, however, we rapidly embed ourselves again in mother's arms. And so it goes, through all our life, argues Kegan. A back and forth, ebb and flow. We want to do out own thing; we need to be with others. We need to go our own way; we want never to be alone.
Theologian Paul Tillich put it this way, "What is most characteristically human about us in the tension between the desire to be 'free' - self-identifying and self-choosing - and to be 'related' - to love and to be loved." Whole philosophies and theologies, whole societies have been structured emphasizing one over the other rather than understanding that to be a self is a both/and - simultaneously an individual me and an embeddual we.
The Radical Reformation, II: Redefining Community
I start with this idea as we continue a series of sermons on Unitarian Universalism and its place in the Radical Reformation of the Roman Church. Last Sunday, I shared with you how we think differently of a unitary God and wholly human Jesus, how we view scripture as inspiration more than revelation, and affirm the inherent worth and dignity of ever human being.
Today, I want to say more about how Unitarian Universalists understand being human. As we honor Dr. King today, I think we need to correct one aspect of our Reformation legacy: its preoccupation with the individual. Proudly we have championed the individual, lifting up statements like this one from Unitarian poet e.e. cummings: "To be nobody but yourself in a world that night and day wants to make you like everybody else is to fight the greatest battle you will fight and never stop fighting." While true, it is only half of what it means to be a person. We need also to lift up our commitment to what King called the Beloved Community and a sense of our mutuality. As with a gestalt image, we need to notice both the me and the we in our understanding of what it means to be a person.
Free or Fixed, Which Is It?
One question of the Reformation was whether God's will is so all powerful that we humans could not alter the outcome of our salvation. As orthodox Christianity evolved over the centuries, it misappropriated Hebrew teachings regarding the origins of humankind and our eventual outcome. Where the Jews thought a messiah some day would redeem all existence, increasingly, Christianity focused on human failing. No longer an extension of God itself, made in God's image, humans were understood as separate from God, utterly corrupt, salvageable only due to the sacrifice of Christ.
Drawing also on Plato, the Church portrayed this life as a trial and all that really mattered came in heaven hereafter. As I mentioned last week, Luther and Calvin tweaked the Church's teachings to argue that salvation was not something you could earn. They said grace is a gift of God, freely given (or denied!). In part a reaction to the excesses of the Roman church's selling of indulgences, they rightly argued you cannot manipulate God into saving you - as say, a teenage girl might sweet talk Daddy into letting her use the family car on Friday night. Benevolent or nasty, God is a despot under this scheme.
Calvin chose nasty. In his doctrine of despair, God is a tyrant and humans are inherently awful. Only some, whom God already had chosen at the beginning of creation, stand a chance not to burn forever. The game is fixed.
As the 16th century drew to a close, a Dutchman, Jacobus Arminius, began to change that by arguing that we humans are free. God gave us free will. How else could Adam and Eve rebel? He said, if we are free to sin - or not, then surely we are free to accept or to reject God's salvation. Otherwise, salvation or damnation is forced upon us and our will is of no account.
Today, most people assume this to be so. Our entire moral and legal system is premised on personal freedom. For good or ill, we are responsible for our lives. Thus, Arminianism can make sense to us only if we grasp how deeply people held to the notion - well into the 18th century - that all of history was preordained. Kings ruled by divine right; the social order reflected God's unwavering intentions, and your goodness or lack thereof was fixed, all part of God's plan. Life was God's drama and we humans but a plaything to the gods. To the contrary, today we take for granted that the social and political order are human creations. We believe further that each person can and does shape her life. Our character and our destiny are a matter of choice, not fate.
This belief in free will was a radical departure from orthodoxy. As it flowed into and out of New England Congregationalism, it provided the justifying framework for the American Revolution. Only if you believe people are self-determining could you imagine our vibrant democracy. As you look around the world today, the struggle continues at the poles of this theological divide: the West mostly subscribes to notions of self-determination. By contrast, Islam and many eastern traditions hold to the idea of God's implacable will or variations on karmic forces of predestination. Do I have to ask which you think is more correct?
Unitarian Universalism's Bias Toward Individualism
Arminianism is at the core of our understanding of human nature. After the Transcendentalists and Humanists prevailed in Unitarian Universalist theological development, the liberal Christian church became ever more known as the Free Church, strongly emphasizing personal independence. In this, Emerson is both our hero and our bum: He argued that to be a self fully, one had to rely solely on one's own intuition of the One Mind or Oversoul. As we heard last week, he urged others to reject the good models and to dare go it alone.
On the positive side, our heritage steadfastly has held to the belief in the worth of persons and in our potential perfectibility. Sadly, there is also a shadow. Going it alone tilted Unitarian Universalism toward a deep distrust of institutions. We can and do speak passionately for the singular self. We are less adept at speaking for the common good.
Unitarian Universalist Mutuality
Biologist Lewis Thomas wrote: "There is a tendency for living things to join up, establish linkages, live inside each other, return to earlier arrangements, get along whenever possible. This is the way of the world."
A theology of the person as a self apart is, happily, not the whole story. While our forbears were struggling for spiritual freedom, they soon discovered that personal freedom is insufficient if you want to be a human. If you believe in freedom for yourself, there is a natural and logical inclination to want it for others.
In particular, beyond Emerson, others in the Unitarian Universalist reform movement saw that spiritual freedom was deeply tied to social and economic freedom. As early as 1825, the newly formed American Unitarian Association asked Joseph Tuckerman to take up a ministry-at-large to the poor of Boston. His work gave birth to significant social reforms and created the field of social work in the United States.
Tuckerman sought to implement the moral principles of liberal, Unitarian Christianity. "There is no human being, however, depraved, who is yet totally depraved," he wrote, "no one for whom moral efforts are not to be made as long as God shall uphold him in being." Challenging the privileged, he mobilized liberals to address and solve civic problems. This arose from the belief humans could change and improve, and because loving others was understood as the highest expression of religious life.
The 19th century set the model for our continuing concern for a just society. Tuckerman was one among many reformers to arise among us. To quickly name a few, there was:
- Horace Mann, founding President of Antioch College, who created the American public school system.
- Dorothea Dix, reformer of mental health treatment;
- Charles Dickens, among many who challenged the idea that the poor were less than human.
- Abolitionists, in addition to Theodore Parker, such as Julia Ward Howe and journalists Lydia Maria Child.
- Susan B. Anthony, leader of the woman's suffrage movement.
- Robert Baldwin, founder of the American Civil Liberties Union.
- Civil Rights Leader, Whitney Young, Jr.
The list goes on and that's the good news. Our social justice investment reflects a deep confidence in human dignity and the human prospect for a better life.
From Me to We, from Individuality to Mutuality
We began with this muse by asking what it means to be a "self." Many think of being a self as a thing, an entity, or at least a way of being you. However, there is no such thing as a self per se. Feminist theologian Carter Heyward puts it this way: "We are born in relation, we live in relation, we die in relation. There is, literally, no such human place as simply 'inside myself'. Nor is any person, creed, ideology, or movement entirely 'outside myself'."
Who you are, who I am, depends, then, on with whom we are connected, in whom we are embedded. This is no small statement, for it means that there are no monads. The self-apart is an illusion. And, contrary to popular teachings that emphasize each believer saving her own soul, quite literally, you cannot do it. We need one another. We are all in this together. We must save one another if any is to be saved. However attenuated our sense of belonging to the beloved community may be at times, it is the ultimate reality. However poorly articulated, this idea is central to contemporary Unitarian Universalism.
Now this is radical. It goes against the narcissism or self-centeredness of our society. To be fully human requires something in addition to looking out only for number one. To be fully human means paying attention to how me and we are one. It means the common good, not just my good, has to have a place in the public square - something sorely lacking in recent years.
As usual, this weekend we will see and hear perfunctory tributes to Dr. King, calling him, no doubt, the "slain civil rights leader." It is true Martin was concerned about civil rights. But he was about justice even more. We forget the context in which he was slain, arguably in reaction to his speaking against the war in Vietnam. Recently, I reread King's address, Beyond Vietnam, delivered just about a year before his death. I tell you, friends, you could substitute Iraq and hear essentially the same speech. Thirty-eight years later American ideology still worships at the altar of the gods of war, violence, and revenge.
Calling then for a "genuine revolution of values, King declared, "If we are to have peace on earth, our loyalties must become ecumenical rather than sectional. Our loyalties must transcend our race, our tribe, our class, and even our nation . . . It really boils down to this. All of life is interrelated. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied into a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly . . . I cannot be what I ought to be until you are what you ought to be." Embracing a gospel of mutuality as well as a gospel of individual liberty is the correction yet needed among Unitarian Universalists. On this, we have yet much to do.
Our Heritage and Our Living Tradition
Last Sunday, I concluded my remarks last Sunday saying, that Jesus gave us our core teaching, to love one another, and in that loving we find God or the divine. This is the ultimate we of mutuality. The very simplicity of that teaching is what makes it so strange and so wimpy. Yet, as King observed, "Love is somehow the key that unlocks the door which leads to ultimate reality." It is our fear of love, its joys and its obligations and a preoccupation with me that perpetuates a culture of war and violence. If we would honor Dr. King on his birthday, let us now also demand "a revolution of values."
Prophetic then, just as apt now, King thundered, "We can no longer afford to worship the god of hate or bow before the altar of retaliation. The oceans of history are made turbulent by the ever-rising tides of hate . . . History is cluttered with the wreckage of nations and individuals that pursued (the) self-defeating path of hate."
Oh, don't you wish our political leaders would hear. As of this weekend, 2215 Americans have died in Iraq - 35 in just the first two weeks of this new year - and an estimated 30,000 Iraqis. The American people seem finally able to hear what a mistake we have made. King taught war-making is never the way to justice. Perhaps we will yet hear him and begin that revolution of values and let love rule instead of hate. Perhaps Unitarian Universalists will continue the radical reformation our society still needs. Perhaps.
This is the living tradition of our Unitarian Universalist faith. Let us hope that this spirit of we will become the order of the day. May it be so. Blessings, my friends. Amen.
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
where there is hatred, let me sow love;
when there is injury, pardon; where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood, as to understand,
to be loved as to love;
for it is in giving that we receive, it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying [to ourselves] that we are born to eternal life.
Prayer attributed to St. Francis of Assisi.
Notes to the Text
1.Gestalt psychology is a theory of human meaning, which suggests that we are active participants in creating our world of experience. It is hard to say just what happens in our minds, but something does as you look at the picture on the right, seeing on the one hand a series of black dots with white lines and on the other a white square with cut-out circles covering a drawing of a white square.
Stare now at this second image, and ask yourself what is happening inside you as the images flips so that at times a column of blocks appears to be coming out toward you and in another you see a step-like structure leading to your left.
Both perceptions and conceptions are true simultaneously, although we cannot seem to attend to them in an "at once" mind. The gestaltists argue that many of our life experiences are of this nature, leading to false dichotomies in our understanding of what's truth or false.
2. Robert Kegan, The Evolving Self (Cambridge: Harvard, 1982).
3. Source unknown, although I think it might be in Tillich's The Courage to Be (Yale University Press, 1952).
4. The Protestant Reformation of the Roman Catholic Church has its roots in the Christian Renaissance of the 14th and 15th centuries. It appears formally in Martin Luther's protest against the political structure and practices of the Church when he nailed his 95 Theses to the church door at Wittenberg in 1517. The Reformation continued through the 16th century and provoked a so-called counter-Reformation at Council of Trent (1548-1563) as the Church defended itself by attacking Luther.
5. The Reverend Kenneth Gordon Hurto, January 8, 2006. "The Radical Reformation I: Redefining Christianity - From 'Savior' to Exemplar." Copies are available in the church Narthex or on line at http://www.uucfm.org.
6. Plato's "ideal-ism" says only the Ideal or the Form of a thing is ultimately real. Any given existing thing is a lesser representation of the truly real. Thus, there is "Table" as an idea, easily recognized among any series of flat-topped, legged pieces of furniture. Each is a table, but Table is the really real.
From this comes the notion that earthly existence is lesser, even an undesirable state from which death is a liberation or escape. If you add to this the Hebrew notion that humans have been banished by God from paradise and the goal of life is to return, then our experience lives are but an interlude, often miserable from which death is a deliverance.
However, moral conduct becomes important as to determining whether or how one arrives in the blissful estate. The Church has long maintained that, with the Jews, that God inscribes our lives in his book. At death, we face either restoration to grace, an indefinite period of purgation the Church calls 'limbo,' or a descent into the nether regions to suffer God's punishment at the hands of the rebellious angel, Satan.
Early Puritan orthodoxy put him frailty as the center-piece of its teaching, in contradiction to the Catholic teachings of forgiveness and redemption.
7. Dutchman Jacobus Arminius (1559-1609) was another influential thinker who argued for human freedom either to accept or to reject God's salvation. This idea was challenged by the orthodox as undermining God's sovereignty. The Arminians countered that it made no sense not to have choice; otherwise, the salvation was of no consequence.
8. It is an interesting side story that as the Universalists formed their theology in early 19th century America, they believe salvation was an absolute given and that God was indeed all powerful. This led to the interesting assertion that God is the author of sin - that it, sin serves God's purpose. The early Universalists also proclaim that the purpose of the church was simply to announce the good news that everyone was saved, not damned. Over-joyed with this teaching, the Universalists did not worry much about human autonomy.
9. Freedom and responsibility are necessarily co-dependent notions. You cannot be responsible if you are not free; you cannot be free if you are not responsible.
The listener will rightly observe that there are a great many people who subscribe to the notion that everything happens for a reason - often beyond our understanding. One hears this most often after some tragic occasion. Some blame victims, as was the case after the tsunami in 2005, suggesting they are receiving divine retribution for some moral failing. Many, lying in a hospital bed, body in pain wonder, "What did I do to deserve this?"
In like fashion, still others guide their lives by the soothsaying of astrology or suggestions of the "I Ching." And some refuse to take responsibility for their lives by invoking the genetic or social legacy of their families of origin, the prejudices of society, or the influence of drugs.
10. Plato: "Man is the plaything of the gods, and that is the best of him; and so we should play the noblest games." William Shakespeare echoes this same sense of helpless futility in King Lear: "As flies to wanton boys, are we to the gods; They kill us for their sport." (4.1.36)
11. Traditional Western religious thinking struggles with how to account for an all-powerful God while maintaining human freedom. This leads directly to the problem of God "allowing" moral evil or simply tragedy to occur. Why would God let bad things happen to otherwise good people? And why do some people seem to get away with the nasty things they do?
Some theologians argue that God voluntarily chooses not to intervene in human affairs, in a way similar to a parent not resolving children's squabbles. God "lets" humans work out their own problems. This is the price we pay for our free, goes the argument. This is small comfort to those who are innocent bystanders caught up in the mayhem perpetrated by the sins of others, or those simply at the wrong place and the wrong time.
Among Unitarian Universalists, Emerson argued especially a theory of compensation, saying that what goes 'round eventually comes round. That is, you cannot participate in evil without it coming back to haunt you in time. Likewise, practicing the good will be its own reward. This, he thought, was a moral law in the nature of things - thereby avoiding problem. According to Emerson, the balancing of good and evil all comes out in the wash in the end.
In some modern theology, the theodicy question is answered by positing a God of limitations. Process theologians, particularly, challenge the idea of God's omnipotence in favor of a God who grieves with humanity as we suffer evil or tragedy.
Among humanistically inclined Unitarian Universalists, there is no need to call upon a God of power or limitation. Such thinkers say simply that bad stuff happens, often without rhyme let alone reason. "Rain falls on the just and unjust alike." To the extent moral evil occurs, it is an outgrowth of human frailty not God's indifference or master plan. Thus, rather than calling for divine intervention or invoking a divine excuse, many Unitarian Universalists will say we made the mess, it is up to us to clean it up.
12. Unitarian Universalist churches, along with Baptist and the United Church of Christ, take their polity or form of governance directly from the notion that only the people can decide the proper ways to worship and conduct their affairs.
Congregational polity arose directly from the challenge and opportunity of an unstructured "new world." When the Puritans sought to organize themselves, not only where they rebelling against the political aristocracy of kings, they were rejecting as well the dominance of the Episcopal and catholic clergy. Taking a text from the Bible, "Where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I," New England settlers defined the church, not by creed or apostolic authority, but as, simply, "the gathered faithful," who pledge simply "to walk together" in pursuit of God's truth and will.
Congregational churches, including ours, premise their work on "covenants" or "affirmations" which speak to intent and purpose rather than to church doctrine. Here is an example of the Salem, Massachusetts congregation that beautifully captures the sentiment, adopted in 1629 and still used by that congregation:
We covenant with the lord and one with another,
And do bind ourselves in the presence of God,
To walk together in all his ways,
According as he is pleased to reveal himself unto us
In his blessed word of truth.
13. In addition to its challenge to the liberal's theology, Emerson's Divinity School Address (1838) also dismissed any reliance on the wisdom of others as at all important. His earnest desire for the American spirit to break free of its dependence on European thought seemed to convey a rejection of any and all authority. See Emerson: The Mind on Fire by Robert D. Richardson (U of California Press, 1996) for a wonderful literary biography that traces the influences on Emerson's thought.
While many of our Unitarian Universalist congregations are named in his honor, it should be noted that Emerson failed in his ministry and he did not relate well to the larger movement of liberals of his day. It is also true that the other leading lights of Transcendentalism (especially Theodore Parker [1810 - 1860] and Octavius Brooks Frothingham [1822 - 1895]) were more successful in creating fan clubs than lasting churches. The humanistic component of our faith tradition similarly has been more concerned with doctrine than with building lasting structures for its articulation.
The institution builders without whom we would long since have disappeared are mostly forgotten. Just one example: The great Henry Whitney Bellows (1814 - 1882), nearly single-handedly responsible for the creation of the National Conference of Unitarian Churches in 1865, is mostly unknown outside of the All Souls Unitarian Church of New York City, where he served as pastor for 44 years. Without his leadership and that of others like him, there would be no Unitarian Universalist living tradition.
For a comprehensive treatment of this sermon's general thesis that we have over-valued individualism at the expense of creating strong support for the common good, see Robert Bellah's challenging Ware lecture, Unitarian Universalism in Societal Perspective, delivered at the Unitarian Universalist Association's annual General Assembly in New York in 1998, http://www.robertbellah.com/lectures.html.
14. Lewis Thomas, The Lives of a Cell: Notes of a Biology Watcher (Bantam Books, 1974).
15. Joseph Tuckerman (1778 - 1840). See the Dictionary of Unitarian Universalist Biography for a brief story of his life: http://www.uua.org/uuhs/duub/index.html.
16. To have a full appreciation of how Unitarian Universalists have implemented our faith in human worth and dignity, our commitment to a just and equitable society, see the Dictionary of Unitarian Universalist Biography for a much larger list of people - and the institutions we Unitarian Universalists have created in spite of our anti-institutionalist bias.
17. In our most recent attempt to consolidate our convictions, the Unitarian Universalist Association's statement of principles gives high priority to a sense of mutuality. It says, in part, "We Unitarian Universalists affirm and promote - Justice, equity and compassion in human relations and the goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all." Adopted, 1985; revised, 1992.
18. Carter Heyward, The Redemption of God: A Theology of Mutual Relation (University Press of America, 1982). Feminist theology emphasizes relationship and the ethical obligations of community in contrast with patriarchal theology that focuses on individual rights. Whether such clear gender differences is inherent or a social outcome remains in debate.
19. The notion of "the common good" dates back to the early Greeks in Plato and the Romans in Cicero. In this A Theory of Justice (Belknap Press of Harvard University Press, 1971), contemporary ethicist John Rawls defined the common good as "certain general conditions that are...equally to everyone's advantage." The idea of the self-apart fosters an ethics of individual rights that, absent the leavening force of an ethic for the common good, rapidly descends into a Hobbesean non-ethic of each against all.
It takes a large soul to be able to make this shift, for often the good of the all will require some modest sacrifice on the part of individuals. Yet, without such sacrifice (trivially illustrated by our willingness to stop and wait our turn at traffic intersections), chaos ensues. The very notion of society or social order requires balancing these two kinds of rights, in such a way as the gestalt image contains both a vase and two faces.
20. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Beyond Vietnam, an address delivered to the Clergy and Laymen Concerned about Vietnam, at Riverside Church, 4 April 1967 New York City.
21. At the end of 2005, 16,337 Americans have been wounded, untold numbers of Iraqis. To learn the details of the overt human cost of this war, see: http://icasualties.org/oif/. Recently, economists have estimated the ultimate economic cost - just to the United States - will exceed one trillion dollars! Recall President Dwight Eisenhower's warning about how every dollar spent on war-making is a theft from the needs of our children and their future!
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